The Dream You’re Meant to Finish—Even If It’s Not Yours

There’s a time in life when our parents quietly sacrifice everything—for a home, a better job, food on the table, or even just moments we’ll never know about. Prayers whispered late at night. Long hours worked in silence. Joy was set aside so we could have stability.

And somehow, we grow up wondering why we feel pressure to be perfect.

But here’s what I’ve come to realize:

Healing, self-love, and reconnecting with God often start with honoring the version of yourself your parents already see.

Not the flawless version, but the brave one. The one who keeps trying, takes risks, and carries dreams bigger than anyone expected of them.

The one who still believes in becoming.

When You Love Yourself, You Honor Your Family’s Sacrifice

As a Latina from a big family, life is often centered around love, laughter, and being together. But it also comes with expectations. Sometimes, the dreams we’re handed aren’t our own. We want to be artists—but our parents want us to be nurses. We want to explore the world—but they want us close.

And even though they’ve done everything for us—from the day we were born until now—there’s a silent ache when we disappoint them. And yet… their sacrifices still speak love.

I remember asking my mom once what my brother wanted to be when he was a kid. She laughed and said, “He wanted to work at Burger King so he could eat all the Whoppers, or be an elote man so he’d never run out of corn.” Now? He’s an engineer.

Same with my dad. He had dreams he never fully chased, maybe because of money, responsibility, or fear. But now I see: just because they didn’t finish the dream, doesn’t mean I can’t.

Sometimes, your purpose is to complete the dream someone else had to put down.

Your Purpose Might Look Like a Full Circle Moment

A few months ago, I had a glimpse of my dad as his younger self. It felt divine—like God was showing me he had dreams too, but life made him choose something else. And I realized:

I’m not stuck. I’m continuing.

I’m here to carry something forward. Maybe it’s not my original dream—but it’s a dream that needs to be finished. And maybe, just maybe, I’m the one who can do it.

So if you feel stuck in your career, unsure of your next step, or lost in a season of waiting, ask God:

“What dream do You want me to fulfill?”
“What purpose have You set aside for me that I’ve been too afraid to see?”

Because sometimes the answer won’t just be about you—it will be about legacy.

Be the First—Even If You’re Afraid

Be the first in your family to start a business.
Be the first to graduate college.
Be the first to move across the country and chase the life you’ve prayed for.
Be the first to heal. To forgive. To dream again.

I know it’s scary. I know people might laugh.

When I was in 8th grade, two teachers told me I’d drop out of high school. That I’d never make it. That I wasn’t smart enough.

Today? I have a college degree and a purpose I actually love.

So prove them wrong. But don’t do it with pride. Do it with passion.

You don’t need to compete with anyone else. Focus on what lights you up inside. Whether it’s art, music, writing, or photography—it matters. It’s sacred. It’s yours.

Don’t Let Comparison Kill Your Calling

I once had a friend I confided in. I shared how much I loved photography and creating content. The next day, she started copying everything I did—not out of support, but to compete.

Over time, the friendship felt draining. I prayed to God, “Why does this feel off?”

And His answer came clearly: Some people are sent for a season. Not every relationship is meant to grow with you.

Let that be your reminder:
If something doesn’t align with your spirit, don’t force it.
If something feels heavy, ask God for clarity.
And if you feel unseen—remember that even in your quiet season, you are growing.

You Don’t Need a Stage to Start—You Just Need Faith

When I started my blog, I chose to stay faceless—not because I’m hiding, but because I believe a powerful message doesn’t need a spotlight. It just needs to be heard.

You can share your gifts in small ways.

Post the video. Write the blog.
Sing the song. Start the brand.

God gave you a gift to be used—not buried.

And if you’re scared to go public, start private. Let your courage grow in quiet. Let your confidence rise from prayer. Because every small step still counts.

Final Reminder

You don’t have to be perfect.
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
But you do have to start.

And if you ever feel alone in your journey, remember this:

You are not forgotten. You are not late. You are not behind.

You’re becoming.

One prayer, one risk, one yes at a time.

So, whether it’s your dream or one passed down to you… finish it.
Live it. And let it be the miracle your whole family gets to witness.

 

Today’s guest blog is by Becoming Her. Please read more articles like this here.

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